“We die with the dying:
See, they depart, and bring us with them.
We are born with the dead:
See, they return, and bring us with them.” 

~ T.S. Eliot, from “Little Gidding”

for Loren:  whose light is too bright to ever be extinguished, and who will no doubt shine brightly again on this temporal plane – though he still shines now.  Not ‘here’ here, but where our hearts and souls reside.  Yet, the sooner he returns in body to us, the better off we will all be.  May your soul find peace, my love.  In whatever form that takes.  My prayers go with you, to help you find your way.